How about a “Second Opinion”.. kisi se puchu ya nahi ??

What is second opinion?

When you want to eat mix veg but the option of palak paneer is equally interesting, and you can go for only one sabji, and you ask from someone else “What to eat?” knowing the fact that you want to eat mix veg more than palak paneer is the explanation of second opinion is laymen’s language.


And when the second person says yes, lets eat mix veg, is the opinion which matters because you know it is your choice and you are just reaffirming your decision.

How much importance it has in our day to day life?

We always doubt on our capabilities and we seek the advice of an expert to guide us i.e., counselling.When an expert assist us we gain confidence. The feeling of confidence gets boosted up with second opinion.


Why do we need it?

We need it because the question log kya kahenge? gets resolved.

We need it because we want someone else to tell us how strong we are.

As they say, you feel beautiful when someone else compliments you.

There is no harm in taking second opinion. Infact, this is the best decision to discuss your thoughts and imagination with someone else.

Second opinion leads to support  and motivation in many cases, which are very important for success in any endeavour 

I always seek second opinion, actually I go for even the fourth & fifth opinion 🙈😛

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And the move on!!

Isha, vishakha and sid were in class 12th when all this happened!

Vishakha was really unhappy, her school was over by now.As she had no friends other than Isha and Sid.

For around 4 months, there was no one to talk to her, except her family. 

Vishakha’s family used to ask her why Isha and sid are not talking to her? Vishakha had nothing to answer as she was in the same doubt.

 It was a tough time because of the split as well as deciding what to do in future, how to get in a good college.

She gave many entrace exams, and by chance for an exam Isha and Vishakha shared same examination centre and there she saw Isha and sid coming together, but sid was not appearing for exam, he accompanied her, leaving vishakha confused how they started dating again.

After the tough time, Vishakha got in a good college where she got the chance to interact with people and make new friends


Eventually, she forgot everything and got carried away with her new life. But deep inside she never wanted to trust any one again. 

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And the split!!

They were really close friends. A little gang of 2 girls and a guy, Isha, Vishakha and Sidharth.

Like a family,they understood each other.  

Isha and sid started dating, for vishakha it was really sweet to see them fall in love. They loved each other but they used to fight alot. Vishakha was the one who resolved their silly,cute fights.

After some time Isha and Sid broke up, Sid started flirting with Vishakha, Vishakha took it in healthy way and never reacted the way Sid wanted it to be.

And soon Sid proposed vishakha to be his girlfriend, Vishakha was now interested in Sid, his flirtings now made her day.

She could feel her love for Sid, but Sid warned her not to tell anything to Isha.

But vishakha wanted to keep things clear and transparent and one day she decided to tell everything to Isha.

And that was the last day when she had her friends, Isha and Sid.


Till date, Vishakha has no clue what wrong she did? 

Why does a girl trusts a guy more than a girl?

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Work life balance? Duhh!!

What is work life balance?

The division of one’s time and focus between work and family/ leisure activities. 

Work life balance is very important. As they say “All work and no play,makes jack a dull boy”.

To be active,fit and happy we need to maintain our work life balance.

But do we have any? For me its a big NO.

The reason of this imbalance is not always our organisations, which make us work on odd timings or the stay backs we do, its also because of the travel time.

It takes so much time to go to office and then from office to home, everyday we spend minimum of two hours travelling. And this travel time is total waste.

In those 2 hours, we could have studied, took a walk or exercised, met up with people, there are ‘n’ number of things to do rather than sitting in traffic.


We face so much traffic which again distorts our work life balance.

  • We keep sitting idle for hours.
  • We cannot drink water while in traffic, no washrooms near by.
  • Our work suffers and sometimes we need to stay back for the time wasted in traffic.
  • It causes fatigue which reduces the productivity.

I wish there was an “Any where door” to go to places without wasting any time.


Happy valentines day to all the couples who got stuck in the traffic and came back home fighting.

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The valentines poem!!


If he does whatever you say .. don’t let him go!

If he gives you foot massage when you get tiered.. don’t let him go!

If he wants you to meet his parents.. don’t let him go!
If he makes you shop whenever you wish to.. don’t let him go!

If he eats whatever you want to eat.. don’t let him go!

If you want to drink and he doesn’t drink, still lets you drink.. don’t let him go!

If his hugs relaxes you.. don’t let him go!

If he supports you to study, work harder.. don’t let him go!

If he comes to pick you up from work.. don’t let him go!

If he texts you back while watching cricket or playing his xbox games.. don’t let him go!

If he lets you wear the kind of clothes you want to wear.. don’t let him go!

If he shares his favourite frenchfries with you.. don’t let him go!

If he lets you drive his car.. don’t let him go!

If he gets a bouquet of red roses for you and take them back home because you can’t take them to your home.. don’t let him go!

If he drives you crazy.. don’t let him go!

Love.Love.Love.Love.Love.Love.Love.

Happy Valentines!!

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Chalna he zindagi hai!!!

Going on and on is the key. A stopage can stop you from completing your journey to achieve something that you were about to achieve.

The first vehicle we learn to ride on road  is a bicycle, the first ride gives us a guide to life.

The first push is always hard, when you pedal at first, it takes much energy than the second pedal.

But once you pedal continuously one after other, it becomes smooth and easy. It will take you somewhile to completely stop if you stop pedalling.

But when you want to move again its really hard to push back again because energy and motivation is not the same as was in the beginning.

Same is the story of life, when we start something new, the first few days are tough, and then our hard work starts paying off soon it becomes monotonous.

And we get bored of it, we stop doing our tasks thinking let it be. 

That is when we fall. We loose the balance when we stop making an effort. 

You will never have this day.. this time back.. 

So make it count !!


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6 Reasons why we love and hate summers

Reasons why we love summers

  1. Easy to manage wardrobe
  2. Ice creams
  3. No need to put on multiple layers of clothes
  4. Summer clothes are low cost as compared to winters
  5. Bright and long days in summers
  6. No need to maintain cold and hot water equilibrium while shower

Reasons why we hate summers

  1. Summers brings in the waxing season which is too painful
  2. Tanning 😢
  3. Stinky and sweaty bodies
  4. We can’t live without air conditioners
  5. Electricity bills go to high
  6. No more hiding belly fat in jackets- Need to tonne up

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